Lez/Bi women... do you ever feel as if some women expect?

I'm a trans guy, and I've previously dated guys, and I'm in a relationship with a girl now, and It was kinda weird having the tables turned on me like that. Like how I'm supposed to pay for things, and get the valentines gifts and anniversary gifts an stuff, so I know what you mean. LOL girls are expensive... Anyways. Are the women you're seeing used to dating guys? They may just be acting like they would in a relationship normally, and not realize they are treating you like that. Or maybe they are attracted to women who take control.