How to convince welfare deadbeat to get a job?

You can't. What She does is HER Choice & NO "Business" of Yours! How would YOU feel if your friend's Mom told YOU how to run your Life ??! -A little "bent out of Shape"- I'll bet !!! :o We have NO Control over the Affairs of Other people... The BEST we can DO- is set a good EXAMPLE in Our OWN Lives- in the HOPES that someone will follow in Our Footsteps... :)